heather g.

I spent two hours sitting in my grandmother’s kitchen today talking to her about her past. I shared my past stories with her as well and I realized that some things never do change. Technology may progress and society may become more or less trashy but when it comes down to it… there’s some things that truly never change. The one thing in particular being men. Or just relationships in general really. She told me about guys she dated and the things they did to her and I’ve had the exact same things happen to me. She told me about how she always overlooked flaws because she didn’t want to see them. I’m guilty of that too. The mechanics of the brain seem like they will never change when it comes to certain things. It’s funny how sometimes people can’t relate to anything else besides their relationship past. I’ve always thought that relationships were a bit trivial and they shouldn’t be obsessed over so much. Although, it’s apparent that they play a huge role in almost everyone’s life. My grandmother still remembers her first date when she was 15. I honestly didn’t realize that I’ll probably be remembering the people I have been and will be “involved” with for a lifetime.